Spanking

Erotic spanking is exactly what is sounds like: "You’re spanking someone or getting spanked for the erotic and sexual pleasure.

The types of pleasure that come from a spanking session are varied, and will depend very much on the mood of the moment. Erotic spanking can be gentle, rough, painful, and even romantic at times. “For the body, spanking releases endorphins and causes blood to flow to areas of impact.

Safewords are non-sexual words that alert our partner when we’re not liking something, feel uncomfortable, or want the play to stop altogether. They are extremely helpful when you don’t feel comfortable advocating for yourself during sex. Sparks suggests using the “traffic light” system: "red" means stop; "yellow" means slow down; and "green" means you're loving it.